Recently the photo on the right has surfaced on the internet and the big girls everywhere are going crazy. Why people have their panties all in a bunch as if Monique personally wronged them I have no clue. I mean yea she wrote a book called Skinny Women are Evil and yes a majority of her career and comedy acts were based on the fact that she was this confident, savy and bold big girl telling society to go to hell because she was not going to fit into their standards. Yet once again I stopped and had to ask myself and even my facebook and instagram family what is the big deal? Mo’nique is 45 and has a husband as well as three kids. I think she has done the big girl community well and put us on a platform that otherwise we may not have been able to see if ladies like her didn’t break the mold. On one hand I understand some people’s frustrations and feelings as if she turned her back because she was your motivation and the reason your self esteem rose up and blah,blah,blah. What I don’t understand is why aren’t people happy for her she didn’t go under the knife she changed her eating habits and exercised daily. Shoot if I was Mo’nique and had money for a personal trainer I would probably make the same moves especially if it meant a better and healthier life for me and sticking around to see my kids a little longer. Not to get deep or anything but this is why you need to realize you can only trust Jesus shoot you don’t know what you’ll do with yourself from day to day so why put so might faith in another human being. Next yes Monique did help build countless young ladies self- esteem and confidence rates yet not to sound cliché or anything but in the words of Katt Williams it’s called SELF-ESTEEM having esteem in one’s self. SELF being the key word I don’t care how much someone else lays the foundation if you don’t love you big or small you will always need a leader or person to build you up or to tell your perfect the way you are. Lastly I really wish folks would stop saying she looks sick no she doesn’t she looks like a big girl who lost weight. When you lose weight that’s what happens yes her collar-bone is more apparent and no she doesn’t have as many love handles on her side and back but you know what she does have that a million people in the world today wish they had? She has happiness, she has peace and good health. I don’t understand people the black community in particular we always say we want to eat healthier and that we don’t want diabetes , high cholesterol, and high blood pressure and a list of other hereditary diseases yet when a person in our community actually does something and happens to lose weight as a result of it we bash her. I would love to hear others opinions about this topic………Hit me up let me know how you are feeling about this or any other topic! Email Me – purity.kinkz.bowz@gmail.com Tweet Me – puritykinkzbowz Tag Me on IG PurityKinkzBowz